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BDSM is a term used to describe aspects of sex that involve dominance, submission, and control. The practice typically involves one partner taking on a more dominant role during sex, while the other is more submissive. The acronym BDSM can be divided into these categories:
Bondage
Restricting a partner’s freedom of movement. for example, with handcuffs, ropes, or other restraintst
Discipline
The act of showing dominance over a physical partner, either during sex or outside of the bedroom
Submission
Showing submission to the dominant partner's actions and wishes
Sadism and Masochism (or Sadomasochism)
Pleasure that a partner may feel from either inflicting pain (sadism) or receiving pain (masochism), either physical or emotional
That's BDSM?
While these are the broader categories, there is no one way to practice BDSM — different types can include power play, role-playing, edging, sensory deprivation,, pain play, bondage, wax play or humiliation.
it’s a good idea to educate yourself on these practices first, through classes, books, or instructional online content.
BDSM activities typically take place within a scene, which has a designated start and endpoint;
although, you might add some aspects of BDSM play to your normal sex life.
Discussion of the scene before and after ensures that you and your partner know what to expect and provides
a way for you to connect and heal after a scene, which may be intense both physically and emotionally.